Since becoming a member, I have had multiple issues with their messaging system, where it is out for hours on end. Today, they topped the cake! I had posted an ad and was chatting with a couple of different guys. Then, all of a sudden, every single one of my chains disappeared except for the old one, from over a month ago. So, unless they fix this , I lost all of my promising friends and have no way of reconnecting, unless they are somehow able to message me. But, they probably are thinking that I ghosted them. I am a paying member and will NOT be renewing. The worst ever!!!